Contributed by Frank Pittman
The Playful Therapist
7 Clinicians Share Their Best StrategiesIn this collection, master therapists share how they’ve used humor in ways that both enliven and enrich the work of therapy. Read more
Life Without Father
A Son Looks for Answers from a Stoic Parent Back from WarEven though I knew I wanted to be a father when I grew up, I didn’t know exactly what skills were required. We of the ’40s and ’50s grew up with fathers... Read more
Six Ways to Find Comedy in Even the Darkest Moments
Shaking Your Clients Loose from Their Tragic StancesTherapy, in order to shake people loose from their tragic stances and bounce them into the human comedy, is at its best when it is funny, when the tragic... Read more
The Liberating Power of Honesty
What People Don't Know Can Hurt Them. What They Don't Reveal Can Hurt Even MoreWhen we therapists believe a secret's revelations would be dangerous, the client receives a frightening message about him- or herself and about the world. We... Read more
Coping and Learning After a Client's Suicide
A Therapist Reflects on What He Might Have Done DifferentlyI've been in full-time private practice for almost 30 years. In that time, three patients in my practice killed themselves. Each suicide has left me... Read more
Turns in the Road
Highlights from the Networker JourneyOut of all the hundreds and hundreds of articles that have appeared in the Networker over the past four decades, we’ve chosen a small sampling that captures... Read more
When TV finally came, in the early '50s, the world it brought into our living rooms was black and white, and dumbed way down. Newsmen now had faces, and, as... Read more
Move Over, Meryl
Kate Winslet Ascends to Center StageWhat separates screen actors who remain enshrined in our memory from those who just momentarily catch our eye? Read more
Tell Me a Story
As Hollywood Goes Postmodern, Has Narrative Become Passé?If you're like me, you've noticed that movies don't make as much sense as they used to. Nevertheless, I suspect that there's still an audience somewhere out... Read more
More than Just Frivolity
Joel and Ethan Coen Give Us the Antidote to the Happy EndingThe Coen brothers specialize in redefining the rules of whatever movie genre they happen to be subverting. Read more
Blood and Guts
Violence is Central to Some of the Year's Best FilmsWhile lions and sharks go into frenzy at the smell of blood, at the sight of blood, moviegoers seem to experience a heightening of all emotions, sometimes... Read more
Darkness and Light
Evoking the Flip Sides of the Hollywood Dream MachineTwo hugely successful films, released on the same weekend this summer, revealed the flip side of the Hollywood experience. Read more
No Country for Old Men
Indiana Jones and the Temple of YouthPart of the magic of Hollywood movies is that the larger-than-life heroes and heroines up there on the screen don't age and wither and deteriorate like the... Read more
Hollywood and the Unwed Mother
Comedy is a Window on Our Social MoresSome comedies about unwed motherhood reveal deeper truths about those subjects we can laugh about and those we can't. Read more
Play It Again, Denzel
Keeping Alive the Traditions of Yesterday's StarsAmerican Gangster, Michael Clayton, and 3:10 to Yuma. Our complex relationship with our screen idols is at the root of the Hollywood movie experience. Read more
Shut Up and Dance
Becoming Jane and Hairspray Evoke a Long Movie TraditionBecoming Jane and Hairspray. Evoking a great movie tradition of the past, this summer, Fred and Ginger met both Jane Austen and the Linblad family. Read more
Hearts of Darkness
Finding the Courage to Walk Through the ShadowsA Mighty Heart, Away from Her, and Evening. It takes courage to live life, and to live with the life you chose. Read more
Getting a Life
Whose Story Are You Living Now?As we go through our lifetime metamorphoses, we adapt to those whom we like and hate, envy and fear. We fall in and out of love, and emulate and identify with... Read more
War Is for Heroics
Three cultures try to locate meaning in mayhemDissecting the fantasy of heroism. Read more
Americocentricity
Babel and Borat force us to look beyond our cultureA new generation of filmmakers is taking us beyond the Americocentric world of mainstream cinema. Read more
Royal Flush
The Perils of CharismaThis fall, at a time when competent, sensible leadership seems in especially short supply around the globe, three films appeared almost simultaneously to... Read more
Overlapping Realities
Robert Altman is the ultimate systemic filmmakerOne of his biographers, Patrick McGilligan, insists that "marijuana shaped [Robert Altman]'s storytelling. Read more
Me Neither
Brokeback Mountain challenges our most cherished gender stereotypesPittman reviews the controversial film Brokeback Mountain, directed by Ang Lee, from a psychotherapist's point of view, discussing how it dissects the... Read more
Only the Lonely
Self-absorption is a pitfall of too much time on the roadI wonder what the [Ingmar Bergman] of today would think of [Bill Murray]'s aging Don Juan, who plays for comic effect the loneliness that's so obsessed... Read more
Us and Them
Daring to tackle the troublesome issue of raceI don't know if [Kevin Costner]'s loose-limbed approach would relieve the tension in L.A. But somehow he has such a fully developed emotional immune system... Read more
Of Good Girls and Bad Girls
Becky Sharp may have been the first feminist heroineThe camera moves in so close on each of the characters that we feel we can read their minds. Such is the skill with which this remarkable film has been acted... Read more
Foggy Warriors
The documentary as populist rabble-rouse[Michael Moore] hammers away at the now-established fact that there were no weapons of mass destruction in Iraq (the only place on earth regularly searched and... Read more
Fierce Creatures
How I nearly lost my innocence in La-La LandFrom the May/June 1997 issue I have just completed my first, and very likely my last, close encounter with the fierce business that has occupied my... Read more
Reality Sucks
Welcome to Generation XFrom the July/August 1994 issue I HAD NEVER HEARD OF KURT COBAIN UNTIL THE OTHER day when he killed himself. Apparently, between suicide attempts, he had been... Read more
Appasionata
Fables and fairy tales and fires in our soulsFrom the May/June 1994 issue NOW THAT THE EXPIRATION DATES HAVE PASSED ON OUR familiar fables and fairy tales about gender, it is time to create some new... Read more
Married to the Mob
A love story that is refreshingly unromanticWharton set her story in 1870, in the New York of her youth, a time that spawned heroines bursting the bounds of societal restraint and struggling to be free... Read more
It's Not My Fault!
Political Correctness v Therapeutic CorrectnessWhen Networker film critic and in-house provocateur Frank Pittman wrote this piece 25 years ago, the concept of “political correctness” was just beginning... Read more
Bringing Up Father
How My Children Taught Me the Secret of FatherhoodWhen author Frank Pittman became a father, he discovered that the childhood absence of his own father left him with no idea how to relate to his kids. This... Read more
Frank Pittman
Frank Pittman, MD, was a longtime contributing editor to The Family Therapy Networker.