Couples on the Brink
Stopping the Marriage-Go-RoundLet’s face it: psychotherapy isn’t dramatic, and most therapists don’t rate high on a “need for thrills” scale. Someone... Read more
Mindfulness Goes Mainstream
Research Is Proving the Value of Awareness PracticesResearch is proving the value of awareness practices It’s hard to believe that just 20 years ago meditation was still widely considered something... Read more
Reassessing SSRIs
Separating Hype from Fact About AntidepressantsFor the last decade, there’s been a spectacularly successful advertising campaign to convince the public that the selective serotonin reuptake... Read more
The Myth of Overmedication
Correcting Stereotypes About Kids' Mental HeathPopular stereotypes aside, it turns out we aren't overmedicating and overdiagnosing our kids. Read more
Hope in the Ruins
Helping the Survivors of the Haitian EarthquakeA disaster-tested therapist, who's worked with the survivors of the Thai tsunami, the Sichuan earthquake, and the Rwanda genocide, offers an on-the-scene... Read more
Beyond the Diet Mentality
Empowering Clients Through Attuned EatingAttuned eating can take people beyond the dead end of the diet mentality. Read more
Seeking the Silence
Wilderness Solitude Opens New Doorways into the SelfAt an age when many are sticking even closer to their couches and remote controls, a restless soul decides to seize his last chance to explore the wilderness... Read more
After the Storm
The Affair In RetrospectAs therapists, we have an unquenchable desire to find happy ending for troubled clients, especially those weathering the crisis of infidelity. But what happens... Read more
Foreign Affairs
Infidelity Has Different Meanings In Different CulturesMy Parisian colleague was shocked to learn that American therapists typically encourage couples not only to confess their affairs, but also to share the... Read more
The Mindful Swimmer
Staying Afloat in the Rough Seas of RelationshipMindfulness offers tools for navigating the stormy seas of a troubled relationship. Read more
From the Editor: July/August 2010
A few years ago, my Aunt Esther, the family historian, finally told me about a rumor that had fluttered around the edges of my family when I was a small... Read more
The New Monogamy
How Far Should We Go?Whether we like it or not, today's couples feel far less encumbered by the legal, social, and moral strictures of traditional marriage and its obligations... Read more
Hoop Dreams
On the Mean Streets of Dallas, Therapy’s a Whole New Ball GameTuesday morning at precisely 9 a.m., my secretary informs me that my 9 o’clock appointment has just canceled (for the second time this month). I remind... Read more
The Road Less Traveled
Whether or not we like to admit it, most of us are creatures of habit. We’re embedded in our daily routines and familiar surroundings, deriving a kind... Read more
Honoring the Mission
Don’t Be too Quick to Ease the Caregiver’s BurdenQ: My clients who take care of aging parents complain about being exhausted, depressed, and resentful, but resist my suggestions for making their lives... Read more
Force of Nature
A Former Supervisee Recalls a Master Therapist at WorkI first met Marianne in 1980, when she descended upon the therapeutic wilderness of Washington, D.C., from Mount Olympus (otherwise known as the Philadelphia... Read more
Breathing Lessons
Unlearning the Mindset of TherapyAs I entered the classroom of our local community college, two things struck me. First, where was everybody?! I was here for my first class in the Chinese... Read more
Planting Season
A Therapist Searches for a Simpler LifeI took a leap of faith this morning and hung a birdfeeder in my backyard. This may not seem like much of a risk, but since the last two birdfeeders I... Read more
Ten Most Influential Therapists
The Most Influential Therapists of the Past Quarter-CenturyTwenty five years ago, in 1982, the first issue of the Psychotherapy Networker was published. That same year, American Psychologist surveyed 800 members of... Read more
The Mars & Venus Myth
Uncovering the Stealth Assault on FeminismThe secretary of state is a woman. The presidents of Princeton and MIT, as well as the two senators from California, are female. Women command Navy warships... Read more
Failure to Launch
The Struggle to Leave Home in the 21st CenturyBy longstanding American tradition, when kids reach a certain age, say 18, 20, 22, they’re expected to fly the home coop and begin living their own... Read more
Hallway Therapy
Systems Thinking Goes to the ClassroomLast year, when a local public school district approached me about becoming the director of their Family Support Center, a free, in-house counseling service... Read more
The Stages of Trauma Recovery
Principles of Effective TreatmentMy intent in sharing my story was to help therapists understand the needs of a trauma victim and to suggest techniques and strategies to meet these needs at... Read more
Between Gay and Straight
Honoring a Client's Multiple IdentitiesA middle-aged man facing the challenge of coming out explores the uncharted territory of a "mixed-orientation marriage" Read more
Psychiatric Imperialism
DSM goes globalCrazy Like Us by Ethan Watters. A withering indictment of America's role in spreading our own concepts of mental illness around the world. Read more
Your Inner Therapist
Listening to your inner therapist * Can we admit that therapy is sometimes harmful? * Botox's interference with emotions * The fearlessness--criminality link ... Read more
The Tribe Gathers
Symposium 2010 Starts a New Kind of ConversationIt may seem strange to think of 3,000 people getting together in the lap of hotel luxury as a "primitive tribal gathering," but the Networker Symposium... Read more