Gender
Embracing Gender-Pleasure
How to Feel Yummy in Our BodiesFor trans folks, attuning to gender-pleasure allows them to resist harmful cultural scripts—but it can be a radical act of resistance for cis folks too. Read more
"Why Won’t You Like Sports?"
The Father–Son Struggle with Gender ExpectationsAs young people move forward with new, more flexible frameworks for thinking about gender, it’s not always easy to bring parents along. Read more
Gender-Affirmative Therapy for Kids
What Parents Need to KnowSupporting transgender children doesn’t always mean rushing toward medical intervention. Read more
Gender-Affirmative Therapy
Helping Transgender Clients Begin Their JourneyThe key elements of gender-affirmative therapy for clients who are medically or socially transitioning. Read more
VIDEO: Doing Your Best Work with LGBTQ Clients
The Myth of Sex Addiction, Common Mistakes, and MoreIs the sex addiction model doing more harm than good? What's the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity? And what are the most common... Read more
The Myth of the Gendered Brain
What the Latest Science Tells UsA new book debunks some fundamental myths about gender. Read more
VIDEO: What Therapists Need to Know About Working with LGBTQ+ Clients
How We Think About Gender and Sexuality is Changing at "Warp Speed"Today’s LGBTQ+ community has exploded in size, and therapists working in progressive, urban communities will likely see clients whose approach to sex... Read more
Esther Perel on the Paradox of Masculinity
What Does It Mean to Be a “Real” Man Today?Feminism has given women a new narrative, but it hasn’t offered men a particularly new one that they can identify with. Ultimately, the lives of women will... Read more
VIDEO: Valeria Chuba on Male Sexuality in the Age of #MeToo
Is Male Sexuality Inherently Violent?In the wake of the #MeToo movement, men are reevaluating the way they approach courtship, relationships, gender roles, and love. Their therapists must switch... Read more
The 6 Most-Read Networker Articles of 2016
A Look Back at This Year's Popular Reads, Chosen by YouBy Chris Lyford - As 2017 approaches, we're taking stock of the past year. Join us in looking back at the most-read online Networker articles of 2016, chosen... Read more
Mistaken Identity?
A Daughter Reflects on Her Father's Decision to Change GenderPulitzer Prize–winning author Susan Faludi explores the story of how the despotic father who’d once ruled her terrified family underwent sex reassignment... Read more
When Your Child Tells You They Are Trans: A Parent's Journey
What role should therapists play?As a therapist, how do you work with conservative parents struggling to parent their trans child? Psychotherapist Jean Malpas shares three keys to acceptance. Read more
The Great Escape
Welcome to the World of Gender FluidityAs cultural attitudes about gender variance have undergone a profound shift, much of what therapists believed about what it means to be transgender is now... Read more
I found talking to the transgender kids and their parents that I interviewed for this issue not only enlightening and educational, which I expected, but also... Read more
The Transgender Journey
What Role Should Therapists Play?Parents typically view their children in the largely gendered terms society lays out for them. Rearranging that internal mind map requires tremendous effort... Read more
It Takes A Tribe
What It's Like to Raise (or Be) a Transgender ChildUntil very recently, most families with transgender children had never met another family like theirs. Now parents and children from the trailblazing Ackerman... Read more
Questions of Gender
A therapist struggles with the clinical choices he’s madeA therapist takes an unflinching look at a puzzling case that spanned 14 years, wondering if he made a wrong turn. Read more
VIDEO: What Distinguishes the Male and Female Brain?
How the Evolutionary Story Lives within Each of UsWhy do young boys tend to roughhouse while young girls lean towards relational play? According to Louann Brizendine, these and many other differences observed... Read more
Should You Have Leverage Over Your Clients?
Terry Real on Why Male Grandiosity Necessitates LeverageTerry talks about grandiosity and the destructive behaviors it leads to, thus making leverage a part of the therapeutic process. Read more
Mad as Hell
The End of the Era of Male EntitlementThe era of unchallenged male entitlement has come to an end, and many men are mad as hell. A new book provides context to help us deal with this anger in the... Read more
VIDEO: Social Conditioning, Or Are We Just Born That Way?
The Neuroscience Behind Primary Gender TraitsLouann Brizendine talks about one of the key neurobiological distinctions between the sexes: the need to reproduce vs. the need to nurture the helpless. Read more
Gender and the Brain
Louann Brizendine's Work Stirs New ControversyNeuropsychiatrist Louann Brizendine has stirred up plenty of controversy by arguing that men and women have very different brains. Read more
The Mars & Venus Myth
Uncovering the Stealth Assault on FeminismThe secretary of state is a woman. The presidents of Princeton and MIT, as well as the two senators from California, are female. Women command Navy warships... Read more
Lions Without a Cause
Men's animal instincts don't fit the modern worldLet's face it: love means something quite different to men and women. A look at other species of social mammals offers some remarkable insights into the... Read more
Women Treating Men
Therapy across the gender divideGender shapes relationship from the very first moment therapist meets client, especially when the client is male and the therapist is female. Read more
Understanding the Neural Marinade; Controversy over gender differences and the brain Read more
Rethinking the Imperatives of Gender
Has society become toxic to both genders?Two provocative new books try to separate myth from reality about gender differences and the distinctive challenges faced by young men and women coming of age... Read more
Understanding the Neural Marinade
Controversy over gender differences and the brainA new book asserting that men and women have fundamentally different brains has stirred more than its fair share of controversy. Read more
Cutting through the isolation of our self-declared tribes Read more
Confronting Homophobia in the Therapy Room
Are We Still in the Dark?Back in the therapeutic Dark Ages of the 1990s, many clinicians, like the rest of the population, were still just beginning to confront their own discomfort... Read more